Wednesday, July 22, 2015

Adventures in Senior Care

Awake during the 3am worry hour this morning, I finally gave up on sleep so was up well before sunrise. I went for a walk out the driveway, mist rising off the field, a few remaining fireflies sparkling in the grass, a couple of deer bounding away, and a couple of stray cats. Cardinals, blue jays, and orioles singing. It is beautiful here.

I am back at Chippewa Pines while my dad recovers. He fell in the bathtub and was there for eight, yes, eight days before being found. One of the neighbors had tried to visit him two days in a row and couldn’t rouse him, so called me. Police and ambulance ensued. Miraculously, no broken bones, but he spent 5 days in the hospital and now is in rehab for an indeterminate amount of time. Lots of colorful bruises and scrapes, and he is very weak, but mentally still fine. He's now able to get around a bit with his walker but still can't get up and down on his own. 

Doesn’t he have one of those life alert buttons? Yes, but won’t wear it. Doesn’t he have a walk-in tub? Yes, but won’t use it. I suspect both of those things will change now. At least I hope so.

It’s been so rainy that the hay fields here haven’t been mowed yet, and they are full of wildflowers. The tall grass is just beginning to turn golden-brown. I almost hate for the hay guy to come to mow. 

When I got here the lawn was all overgrown into foot-high weeds. Dad’s got probably close to an acre of lawn so of course there’s a riding mower. (When we first moved here,almost 50 years ago, before we had a riding mower, mom, dad and I used to take turns at the mowing, a couple of loops each around the lawn.) Anyway, I got it about half mowed, did a tight turn, and suddenly the dang mower won’t move anymore. Still runs fine, just won’t move. Seems like something needs repair every time I’m here. 


The late night that I got here, as soon as I walked in I could hear loud mewling from the side porch. Two or possibly three brand new kittens in the pet carrier that I have now christened the birthing house, as this is the second batch that’s appeared there this year. Surely they must have just been born that day, small as mice and still wet looking. After I went to bed I heard the mother moving them, and haven’t seen them since. Not even sure which cat is the mom. Pretty sure it’s got to be either Fluffy or Buffy, as they are the only outside cats that are tame enough to come up on the porch. But there are at least 2 other cats hanging around outside, and of course we’ve got the three mostly-indoor residents Snoopy, Princess, and Tiger. They are all very affectionate to my dad. But with me here, only Snoopy is friendly. Princess is indifferent, and Tiger is fearful. I think Princess is really mourning for missing my dad, as she spends all of her time just lying at the foot of his bed.

Weather here has been perfect for the past few days, sunny, 75, humidity at a reasonable level. After riding the very pleasant 30 mile round trip out to see my dad, I spent yesterday afternoon napping in the hammock by the river.